Parents may despair of ever teaching their children manners but there are ways to do so. And they are so simple and sensible!
1. Be a strong role model. Actions
speak louder than words. Set a good example and think twice before you
gesture rudely at the guy who cuts you off, yell at the telemarketer on
the phone, or eat standing over the sink.
2. Treat your children with courtesy.
Ask your kids to come to the table or take out the trash; don’t bark
orders. Say please and thank you. Respect their privacy and dignity. Do
not rummage through their rooms when they are not home. Do not embarrass
them in public but instead take them aside for correction.
3. Be clear and consistent about your etiquette expectations.
Make sure your children know the correct way to behave in public and
understand the rules. For example, teach them how to make introductions
and rehearse good table manners. Familiarity breeds success.
Top 10 Most Important Manners According to Parents
Parents want their
children to shine when they interact with others. According to a number
of surveys, they say they most want their kids to:
- Always say “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me.”
- Write thank you notes for gifts.
- Look people in the eye when speaking to them.
- Pick up clothes left on the floor; put dirty dishes in the dishwasher.
- Wait their turn to speak rather than interrupt.
- Use proper table manners.
- Be thoughtful and considerate of others – especially about opening doors and offering seats to older people.
- Listen when others speak and respond clearly when spoken to.
- Respect the privacy and property of others
- Have good phone manners.
None of the above is
impossible to achieve and all are traits and practices that will stand
your children in good stead when they are adults, too. With just a
little persistence and role modeling, your kids will make you and
themselves proud!
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